SupportGroups.com builds awareness and provides support for OCD, Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder. If you are a friend or parent of a person who has a Mental Health condition, or you have been diagnosed yourself, you are not alone. Share personal experiences, evaluate information and get support during times of need, illness, treatment or recovery.
It is very common for people who are heterosexual to occasionally feel attracted to members of the same sex. However if you have enjoyed sexual experiences with people of both genders, this would make you bisexual. That being said, it is important to recognize that whatever label we put on your sexual activities does not override your ability to make choices about who you will be with. If you are content with your wife then the fact you can enjoy sexual experiences with both men and women is of little importance. Most men who are married or in steady relationships do occasionally think about having sex with other people, so you are very normal in that regard.
Best of luck,
Dr. Williams
Monnica T. Williams, Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
No Cost OCD Treatment: http://www.ocdproject.org