Hi all. I am a 21 year old female. I am trying to not make this sound like the "typical" post, but, unfourtunately, i am so nervous right now...that i don't overlly care. here's my problem. i was diagosed with severe depression, causing anxiety with slight ocd. for fiv years i suffered from severe hypochondria --with a specific fear of MS. since then, my MS fear has subsised, but, over the past 3 months, i have started to obsess about being a lesbian. i don't know what to do. I used to have crazy crushes on guys as a child...actually even up to about 6 months ago (y'know where you think about them all the time). but, now, when i think back, i become afraid when i think of females who have hit on me or when i was attracted to someone that i thought was male (but, turned out to be a female). what do you guys think? I have a councilling appt...however, it will take 2 months to get in because the waiting list is so huge...i can't remember the type of councilling that i am going for (somethng to do with how present cicumstances cause anxiety). can one just become a lesbian? any answers (inclu. from homosexuals) would be so much apprechiated. thanls a lot.