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First let me say that it is perfectly normal to be "obsessed" with women if you are a young man, and it makes sense that you would often feel aroused.
When you say that you are trying to have sex with these women, it is not clear what you mean by this. If you are asking them on dates, then that is acceptable behavior. If you are asking them to have sex with you and they don't know you or haven't dated you, then that is a problem. I would say take time to get to know a girl before you ask for sex. Go on a few dates with her first and find out what she finds romantic. Make it about both of you and not just about getting sex for yourself.
Best of luck,
Dr. Williams
Monnica T. Williams, Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
No Cost OCD Treatment: http://www.ocdproject.org
Dear Doctor Williams,
I felt so happy to listen your reply.